You are suffering from the Mother Teresa complex, Virgo I's August 26 - September 2 are all about service. You and Mother Teresa are the Queen of Hearts, the Mother Love card so you two are even more dedicated to serving others.
Now that your family mothering duties are over, the dreamy romantic side of your personality is looking for a love affair. Unfortunately, your Aries II (April 3 - April 10) relationship is best in marriage and worst in romance. He is the powerful King of Diamonds, "The Successful Business Person" and would provide for you, and try to fulfill your every wish. He would adore you in every way but he can't make himself taller.
My suggestion is try dating a Nine of Clubs male, they are the sexiest. Al Pacino, Beau Bridges, Douglas Fairbanks, Robert De Niro and Leonardo Dicaprio are all handsome examples. You have several best loves, to choose from; 29 February, 17 August, 13 October, 9 December but the February 29th match-up is best in love - worst as co-workers. The August 17th prospect is worst in friendship which doesn't sound to me like someone with whom I would like to spend my remaining years.
That leaves Mr October 13th, the Day of the Tough Cookie - Maggie Thatcher is the poster girl, for these success driven individuals. The love relationship between you two is described as not so much passionate as sensuous, but the Virgo I's (August 26 - September 2) can do all the giving and the Libra III's (11-18) do all the taking.
My pick is Mr. December Ninth: The Day of Flamboyance. To December 9 people, life is a romantic adventure. That sounds like your kind of guy. You can add Kirk Douglas, John Malkovich, and John Cassavetes to the list with Douglas Fairbanks Jr., and Beau Bridges. The best part of the relationship dynamic between you, the Virgo I, and the Sagittarius II, December 9th, Nine of Clubs, is titled, Unlocking Dormant Power. Neither one of you wants to share your inner feelings but in a relationship it becomes safe for both, and your love blossoms. Sounds like a dream come true. Now, all you have to do is find the guy, and hope he is tall.
Thanks for asking.
P.S. It says you marry the Nine of Clubs when you are fifty-one.